Thank you, Highup.
Tom, one of the reasons this state ranks dead last is bc of the lack of concern for kids. Teachers and principals actually have "liability immunity" so they can't be prosecuted or sued even if they severely injure a child while administering corporal punishment. People can try to sue but the judge throws it out on the immunity excuse. It galls me that the won't even send someone out if there are allegations. I had to drive my friend and his daughter a couple hours away so the daughter could tell CPS in person about the abuse from her brother. They said there was clearly abuse going on but that since it was being done by another child instead of an adult, they didn't have anything in their system to allow them to give custody to my friend. They did send someone to visit a few weeks later and tell the ex her son needed therapy & she needed to make sure the kids weren't left alone together. Kid went to like 1 therapy session and there was never followthrough. It's all so incredibly frustrating. Although, you mention drugs and they will harass the parents. But anything else and they don't seem to care unless its severe.
Went to samsclub yesterday. Left later than I'd intended so it started getting dark. Grabbed five cases of water, three 25lb bags of cat food, two gallons of milk, and some stuff for arthritis to see if it helps my shoulder. A lonely woman saw the cat food bags and started talking to me. She went on and on and I could ell she was lonely and needed someone to talk at. She just rescued a kitten. I finally tried to excuse myself when she stopped me bc she saw the arthritis cream. Then she started talking about her 92-yr-old neighbor that she helps out. I think she must have spent 25min talking but I didn't want to hurt her feelings. She's a widow and it was clear she needed to get the socializing out of her system. My back started to hurt so I finally excused myself and explained that I needed to get home to my mother to make sure she had something to eat bc she's disabled & I live an hour away. I told her it was good talking with her but I had to get moving. She understood and I escaped. She seemed like a nice lady.
Got through checkout. Greeter who checks receipt was almost asleep standing up. Loaded the truck up and tried to head home but there were police cars everywhere. I *think* there were firetrucks in some spots but it was too dark to tell & they didn't have lights on. Now, in order to leave this town, you can't just go back on the road you came in on, there's a roundabout. ALL roads to the roundabout were blocked off by cops for some reason. So I turned on my gps to try to find an alternate route and followed some of the cars detouring. Got to a point where a cop was directing people with a flashlight. He signaled me to go but he pointed his flashlight directly in my eyes and temporarily blinded me so I covered my eyes briefly and when I could see again there was a car driving through in my way & he was trying to stop them. Driver almost ran him over. He yelled "HEY, STOP!" and the person just went on by and then stopped next to his car-- the road was very clearly closed but this clown ignored him. He walked over to deal with the person so I went. Finally got around to a side road and made it out. but that added an extra 30min to my trip. Popped in to drop something off at my friend's house. I saw the cats at his house had no food and had been out of food for a week so I opened a bag and fed them and left it there. Poor little things were starving. The mother of the kittens has disappeared so they can't nurse. I wish I could take them home but Mom says "NO". 14 cats is too many already.
It was so dark I somehow missed the turn off to my road. Drove 3 miles past it and was confused so checked gps. I have NEVER missed that road before so I think it as a combination of darkness and being tired. There are no street lights in that area. Did a U-turn and headed back and made it home. I'd grabbed grilled chicken sandwiches at Wendy's after leaving Samsclub and they were lukewarm. Would have been cold if not wrapped in foil. They were good at least. Mom said she made herself something to eat (we keep potato salad and chicken salad in the fridge and she has bread). She saw how exhausted I was so didn't ask me for anything. I ate and then climbed into bed and racked out.
Woke up around 5am to the sound of my brother coughing hard. He's got bad mucus right now, almost lost his voice, and really feels cruddy. He got sent home from work early for being sick. Fortunately, he's got a good boss who understands. I went out to the truck to get a case of chicken noodle soup for him and refilled his water jug with filtered water.
I'm going to try to nap a bit more before I have to get up and haul stuff in. My stupid shoulder really hates me. Hurting all the way through to my collarbone. Allergy meds and naproxyn time for now.